We can say it is normal to record these common mistakes young women make because 75.6% of young women fall into this category.
Nevertheless, these mistakes can be drastically reduced to the last or not even make any of them. However this article will talk about the common mistakes and how you can avoid them.
So, who is ready to join me? as we go down to business!!
The common mistakes young women make include:
TRYING TO DEFEND YOURSELF:
This is one of the most common mistake, young women are always seen explaining and defending themselves. Well, if you are right I don’t see any reason defending yourself even when you are wrong too, please reduce the way you explain yourself.
People don’t even believe you, so channel that energy to developing your personal life.
BELIEVING YOU CAN’T TAKE A DECISION:
I stayed one more year in a relationship I knew wasn’t leading anywhere, just for the single reason of not being able to take a decision. It’s enough that you have made mistakes, now pickup your stuffs and leave that shitty state that has screwed you hands down. You are probably still were you are or doing that stuff because you think you can’t take a decision.
EXPECTING TERRIBLE RESULT AFTER DOING THE WRONG THINGS:
“I’m going to beg all my life because I didn’t attend college”
“I won’t get a good job because I didn’t study a professional course”
Young people are full of assumptions ( negative ones though). They expect to fail because they didn’t take the proper actions or didn’t follow due process. They feel there are no other ways to reach success apart from what they know (what they know might not even be valid).
WORRYING ABOUT CAREER:
In every point of a young person’s life, we’ve had different career choices. There was a time I wanted to be a Medical doctor, pharmacist, Copywriter, blogger, content marketer, freelancer, motivational speaker, life coach etc. But now I found out theres was no point worrying about career, especially when you know you are not retarded, lousy, a dullard or lazy. With time your career life will fall in place. So chill.
TALKING TOO MUCH:
We say more than 20,000 words a day, growing women talk a lot, try not to talk too much or at all the whole day. You will find out how precious and golden words from your mouth sounds.
You will love the sound of your voice, and realize how wise you can be when you speak because you won’t talk or say a word without thinking.
HAVING AN OPINION:
Do you have the cure for covid-19? or the solution to economic melt down that is presently ravaging us? What opinion can you possibly have? Many young women already stopped learning and seeking advice from older people because they think/ feel they have an opinion that surpasses every other opinion.
BEING ADDICTED TO SOCIAL MEDIA:
Well, this is the biggest night mare of every young person (both male and female). It seems there is something more to social media we all should find out, not like they are earning from there. Young people spend hours on all social media handles.
Research says 73% of people on social media are youths, they are also very active for about 19 hours every day.
SPENDING ALL YOUR TIME IN RELATIONSHIPS:
Friends who spent years with the same guy during their 20’s are regretting right now maybe because it didn’t end as they thought or wanted. You loose that ideal man trying to stick your ass to what does not have a future.
INGESTING SO MUCH BIRTH CONTROL:
PRACTICING EXTREME DIETING:
Katy says ‘ She eats once daily and consume a lot of veggies’ because she is probably dieting or wants to keep fit. Please why? why are you bent on destroying your life? you sure are not doing that for a man right? else i will flog your ass.
You gotta see how girls get so depressed because of how they look, who ever said looks can replace intellects should be summoned.
SPLURGING SO MUCH STUFFS YOU KNOW IN YOUR HEART YOU WON’T USE:
Young women prefer to stock up expensive jewelries, cloths, bags and beauty products than investing in more knowledge and their career.
They don’t need and use some of these stuffs. Wow, are you kidding me?
You are misplacing priority sister girl.
SPENDING ENOUGH ENERGY ENVYING SOME ONE YOU HAVE DECIDED IS YOUR ENEMY:
She is your other version with the apartment, boyfriend and wardrobe of your dream. Everything she does annoys the hell out of you. ( not like i’m writing out of experience ) Listen, you got to let it go.
HOOKING UP WITH A FRIEND’S SIBLING:
Francisca is stock between putting up with the fact that she’s dating her best friend brother and how she is going to make her best friend know about this.
How do you just hook up with your friend’s sibling? If the sibling lives together with your best friend, damn!! that is the most awkward decision you can ever make.
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